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If you haven't figured it out by now, my name is Ashlee. I am a transgender woman living in rural Alabama.

I am polyamorous and have two cisgender women partners. All together, we have three kids who are our world.

An accomplished journalist, web/graphic designer, and award-winning producer, I maintain a professional career at a television station.

As I write this, I am in the very beginning stages of my journey as a trans person and look forward to sharing that journey with the world.

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